My friend Peace finally switched to wordpress and posted her first Thankful Friday! So happy to have another wordpresser in my life hahaha. Check out her blog HERE!
So when I checked out her blog, I saw another post that she had posted, and came across this.
it happened because one party decided to stop trying, when we allow the busyness of life to take over, when we stop taking the effort to find time and a midst our busy life to update about each other’s life. the friendship eventually were only left on the rack, till it’s a matter of time friends becomes stranger that knows each other very well. –thtriplel
This particular post of hers is about friends and losing them sometimes, and I cannot agree more. It is true. Relationships fail because one party starts to stop trying.
Throughout all these years I have learnt that people who really want to be in your life will make an effort to be, so it’s not worth it to chase after them. As long as you have done your part; you have tried, it’s important to know where to draw the line. Don’t allow them to be your priority when you are only an option to them.
So if you’re feeling dejected because you’ve lost some people who you thought would be there for you no matter what, cheer up, and just remember that someone better will come along. You have to get rid of the weeds to allow the flowers to grow. 🙂